Wahlau... why is my name highlighted at a certain radio station's website... sputter unintelligibly... aaarrrggghhh...

No thanks to Wenjie for alerting me. (And he would like SF to know she "looks jude" in the photo. At least, THIS is what he ALLOWED me to say. Heh.)

No. No. No.

He: "hey just wondering .. if i ask u go for movie will u go?"

I: "i dotn think so"

He: "hahaha... ok... just asking for fun"

I: "it;s ok... i enjoy being honest :-)"

He: "yeah"

Radio silence.

Actually, if he had asked me before he turned into a Wannabe Intellectual Whore and was no longer "fun" to talk to, I would have gone out with him just for "fun and laughter" - even though he does not appeal to me physically; nevermind the absence of intellectual zing, and that I can read him too easily.

Hell hath no fury like The Scorn'd.

And it's not just the women.

He: "verdict is out... my fren say the relationship ended... but he was fuming mad abt the excuses she gv... she say he can't provide wat a woman wants... tat means expectations of a gal increase without the guy's knowledge... then as usual... problem with family, financal, work etc..."

I: "and what do you think about trhe reasons/excuses she gave"

He: "well... expectations of a person change but when your bf or gf is down... shld be there for him or her and not gv this problem if both parties love each other... my fren can't take it... he tot of getting commit suicide... i tink he really love the gal alot..."

I: "i think he's obsessed..."

He: "well when u love a person... anything happen..."

I: "yes of coz i know what it is like to love a person... and i'm saying, your friend has gone from love to obsession... i loved my ex so much i gave him up for his happiness..." (That AND for the sake of MY sanity.)

He: "i think is always easy for the gal to say end... she dun feel anything..."

I: "you do know you are only saying that coz you still hurt from being dumped righ... the way you generalise 'always easy for the gal'... feeling like that yourself is not going to help your friend..."

Have you ever loved someone so much that you let go of him/her for his/her happiness? True love, or something akin to it, is ultimately about self-sacrifice, and not self-fulfillment.